(excerpt) The model can be employed to resolve critical situations involving terrorist activities, international, "ethnic conflict" incidents, prison uprisings, cult confrontations, disgruntled, potentially violent employees, suicidal individuals, domestic (e.g., spousal violence) situations, barricaded individuals, and emotionally/mentally disturbed individuals…
Tammy Lenski- Muhammad wrote me with the question, “What amounts to criticizing?” He told me about a difficult situation with his son, with whom he’s presently living. He wrote,
I came across your “Conflict Habits” information on my computer from when I don’t recall, and after reading it (excellent information) I have a question…[personal information redacted]…he puts up the “criticizing me” defense, the “you are so self-righteous defense,” the “you are so ungrateful for our helping you defense,” and finally (and this is the real gem), the “whatever I do is your and my mother’s fault” after I’m 40 years old. If this reaches you successfully, I would appreciate your feedback, and have no problem if you publicize this inquiry, or want more information.
Criticizing is expressing disapproval of someone or judging their faults. Criticizing can play a key role in conflict when two people get into what I call “the dance of criticism.” It sounds to me like Muhammad and his son are in this very dance.
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Noam Ebner- If you are a negotiation or conflict management teacher, trainer, or instructor, you will want to check out this simulation that includes a teacher's manual.
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Karen Hollett- Mediation is a process where parties come together to solve their own disputes. The parties - with the help of a mediator - are expected to find a solution to their own problem. One of the advantages of mediation is that it keeps the control over the outcome of their dispute with the parties.
There are those who believe that mediators worry too much about process...
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Giuseppe Leone- With a small group of volunteer mediators, two years ago I participated in a mediation pilot project for TRO (Temporary Restraining Order) cases in Hawaii. In a nutshell, this is how it worked...
Our pilot project proved to be effective - 40%-50% of TRO cases did settle in mediation -- and two mediators (Roberta and I) had a settlement rate as high as 75%. Sure, it is debatable whether a settlement rate is a good or the only way to measure the success of a court-ordered mediation program...
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On Friday April 4, the JAMS Foundation(http://www.jamsfoundation.org/) awarded the Sixth Annual Warren Knight Award to Mediators Beyond Borders. The award which is accompanied by a check for $25,000, recognizes the work MBB has done with local organizations, grassroots collaborations and leaders that positively impact conflict resolution culture around the world.
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