Tough questions about human nature arose after a recent training by Baruch Bush and Joe Folger. In my latest blog post, I tried to answer those questions consistently with transformative theory. You can read it here.
Determining the presence of evil during a mediation session is a difficult task. Hitler at Munich certainly had evil intentions base on history's judgment. I have noted that some people spare no one's feelings by hurling insults and cruel statements at the other party. Are these acts of evil or indications of bad behavior? A defendant tried to humiliate the plaintiff by discussing their intimate relationship to my surprise and before I could control this indiscretion. In a personal protection order(PPO) case, I was convinced that the plaintiff would look for the slightest excuse to turn his gun on the defendant. I was concerned for the defendant's safety since It appeared to me that the plaintiff wanted to shoot the young man at the earliest opportunity. I was more concerned for the defendant's protection than the party that initiated the PPO. Is this a manifestation of evil or an expression of anger based on months of ill will and poor communication? I tend to think it is the latter; however, the firing of the gun at the defendant would be an evil act based on what I heard in the joint mediation and caucus sessions. If I assess that one of the participants is a dangerous character capable of perpetrating evil acts, I treat them as I would any other participant in a mediation session with a degree of caution. As a mediator, I cannot do anything aside from calling for the court officer. If a threat is made in session, I try to defuse the threat with the consent and help of the participants by acknowledging it as the disputants develop their mutually agreed upon settlement.
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