The Olive Branch Blog's Blog – August 2015 Archive (9)

This Conversation May be Recorded to Ensure Quality

This conversation may be recorded to ensure quality.”

We’ve all heard that phrase before when we are about to be connected with customer service or a help line of some sort. But I never really thought about what it might mean.

Well, it turns out that there is a psychologist and researcher in England (Elizabeth Stokoe) who analyzes real call/conversation data…

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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 31, 2015 at 11:34am — No Comments

Could Insecure Attachment Be Fueling Your Fights?

You may have heard of mother-child attachment–the idea that babies who feel safe and secure with their mothers tend to thrive, and those who feel insecurely attached to their mothers may have trouble establishing healthy relationships.

Well, according to Dr. Sue Johnson, adults can have attachment disorders, too. Except, for adults, the object of the attachment is one’s romantic partner.…

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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 29, 2015 at 12:07pm — No Comments

How about a break?

Ever had something to do that you really didn’t want to? Or a task that caused you great frustration that just needed to be done?

These types of activities cause me to ‘stress eat’ – that’s my not so scientific term for the well worn path to my refrigerator.

Shuffle My Life Logo Now’s there’s a free app called “Shuffle My…

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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 24, 2015 at 12:42pm — No Comments

Sharing and Taking Turns = Success?

I’ll be the first one to admit–my kids aren’t always great at following the lead. They can be a bit bossy and over-arching, and that’s on a good day. But, as I watched my son play with a friend the other day, I realized…there’s hope.

I looked on as, time after time, the friend grabbed a toy out of my son’s hand. Then, I observed my son just “moving on” to a different toy. No fuss. No fight. I was one proud Mama!

It made me wonder about a recent…

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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 20, 2015 at 11:42am — No Comments

What’s your starting point?

Often we are thrown together because we have some kind of problem that needs addressing.

The usual problem solving process looks like this:

Convene -> Define Problem -> List Solutions -> Evaluate Solutions -> Create Action Plan -> Implement

  • We are convened late (i.e. the problem has become expensive, time consuming etc.).…
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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 17, 2015 at 11:04am — No Comments

The Three “B’s”

Today marked the first day of Kindergarten for my youngest child, and it’s a bittersweet milestone for most of us Moms out there. It means the “baby” isn’t really a baby anymore, which can feel kind of sad. But, it also means you’ve kept your youngest child alive for five whole years (not as easy as you think)!

As I left him in the classroom, under the tutelege of someone I don’t really know, I secretly hoped he would learn something and, hopefully, not…

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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 13, 2015 at 10:48am — No Comments

17 Camels

An old Bedouin was approaching his final days and wanted to leave his wealth to his three sons. The oldest would get the most, while the youngest would get the least.

The father’s wealth was his camel herd, all 17 of them. When his day came and he passed away, the three sons gathered to learn how his wealth would be distributed.

JAISALMER, INDIA - NOVEMBER 15,2008: Silhouette of local people and camels at sunset on November 15,2008 in Thar desert near Jaisalmer, Rajasthan, India. They were informed that…

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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 10, 2015 at 12:14pm — No Comments

Mindfulness: Focusing on the Senses

One of the biggest trends in therapy right now is called Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and it’s really a combination of a lot of different approaches to behavior change. But, perhaps the most notable technique to come out of this modality is called “mindfulness.” And, none of us in the therapy field can believe we didn’t think of this before!

What’s mindfulness, you ask? It’s the ability to be “in the moment,” to be aware of your surroundings. To calm…

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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 6, 2015 at 11:14am — No Comments

Consensus – are we there yet?

Consensus is a an interesting word.

The dictionary definition is “general agreement or concord or harmony” which seems pretty easy, yet how do you know that a group has arrived at consensus?…

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Added by The Olive Branch Blog on August 3, 2015 at 12:04pm — No Comments

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