The decision to divorce is probably one of the most important -- and most difficult -- decisions one will make during the course of a marriage. The unknowns and avalanche of effects falling like dominoes are often too overwhelming for one person to handle: "How do I start the process? When is the best time for me to initiate the divorce? If and when I make the decision to divorce, should I litigate or mediate?" It can be mind-boggling.
As an alternative to the traditional method of divorce conducted in the courtroom, mediation offers an opportunity for a couple to mitigate their financial damages customarily associated with divorce proceedings...
#1 Myth: Using a mediator precludes me from consulting with a lawyer.
#2 Myth: The first step is filing and "serving" my spouse.